Keep Relationships That Do Not Require Usefulness

Many relationships begin through a role. We work together, exchange knowledge, solve problems, or help one another reach an objective. Over time, usefulness can quietly become the foundation of the connection.

We stay close because the relationship keeps providing access, advice, opportunity, or support. That is not dishonest. But it is worth noticing.

I have learned that a life also needs relationships in which nothing has to be achieved — people with whom we can be present without presenting a result, who do not measure us by title, network, or ability to help.

As AI makes professional exchange faster and more efficient, these relationships may matter more, not less — as the places where usefulness is not the price of belonging.